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After graduating he was a salesman in Nebraska and an actor in New York City. That said, his passion was for public speaking. He started teaching public speaking at the YMCA.
After graduating he was a salesman in Nebraska and an actor in New York City. That said, his passion was for public speaking. He started teaching public speaking at the YMCA. The influence of these talks meant he ended up lecturing to packed rooms. Based on this success, he decided to create his own public speaking school. Buffett is only one in a long list of successful people who give the author partial credit for their success.
By the time How to Win Friends and Influence People was published in and became an instant bestseller, Dale Carnegie was already a famous public speaking coach and author of five other books.
Out of his 11 books, this one has proven to be his most popular. Carnegie researched the lives of greats from Julius Caesar to Thomas Edison. He also interviewed influential individuals like Franklin D.
Roosevelt and Clark Gable. Based on these findings, he created a book that has become one of the best selling books of all time. The book is based on a week course he gave on human relations and public speaking. Carnegie starts the book by providing three fundamental techniques you must master to be able to handle people:.
That said, Carnegie recommends being less defensive if you want to be successful. If you can deliver that sense of importance to your fellow man, you will have found the key to dealing with people.
So, seek to learn that thing in every interaction. You will make the other person feel important if you do this. You use what the fish prefer: worms. Yet, humans barge into interactions talking about what they want. Carnegie describes this as a complete waste of time and effort.
As an alternative, you should always ask yourself what the other person wants. Present your reasoning from their perspective. The first way you can make people like you is by showing you are interested in them.
People like to be remembered. People also like to be admired and sought after for help. So, if you need something from someone, tell them that they are the only person who can help you. When you ask, request exactly what you need from them. Finally, make it as easy as possible for them to do it. The author tells several stories about people who genuinely took an interest in the other person. This approach often results in the person giving you what you need. If you can effectively show genuine interest, you will beat all the best sales techniques in the world.
A smile shows the other person that you like them and you are glad to see them. So, preface your smile by being thankful for what you have. Happiness results from our inward condition, not our outward circumstance. We can control our inward condition in the form of thoughts. So, try to think positively about other people to improve the legitimacy of your smiles. Jim Farley was raised by a single mother around the turn of the 19th century. He started work as a bricklayer when he was ten years old and did not obtain much education.
This allowed him to create a mental picture. To put it simply, quickly find what interests the other person. Most people approach a conversation by trying to find a commonality. Sometimes you will struggle to find this shared interest. If you do this effectively, they will find you to be an excellent conversationalist.
Effective conversationalists are also able to diffuse heated conversations. All you have to do is listen to the other person until they have told their whole story and are satisfied they have expressed themselves. By that time, you should be able to address the problem from their viewpoint. Adopting their viewpoint will allow you to naturally offer a quick resolution to the problem at hand. When Teddy Roosevelt was scheduled to meet someone the next day, he would stay up late to read on a subject that the person was interested in.
This does not mean you should begin the conversation with that subject. You will be significantly more effective if you let the subject emerge naturally. Practice doing this with everyone you meet — clerks at the post office as well as your business associates.
Make it a habit and, together with the other practices listed above, it will significantly improve your results and relationships. Even if you shoot down your opponent with your incredible wit and knowledge, they will still leave the conversation resenting you. So, you lose either way. The author again highlights the impact of making people feel important.
Some people argue because they want to feel important. To counteract this, you can acknowledge their importance instead of arguing. By doing this, their ego has room to breathe, and you may then find they become sympathetic to your cause. You should never waste your time trying to prove someone wrong. We are all influenced by our own cognitive biases. Carnegie suggests this script when you believe another person is at fault:. I thought otherwise, but I may be wrong.
I frequently am. And if I am wrong, I want to be put right. If you notice you are wrong, you must admit your fault. Admit it quickly, openly and with enthusiasm. Not everything I wrote yesterday appeals to me today.
I am glad to learn what you think about the subject. If we respond to anger with anger, we will never convince the other party. Suppose we instead respond to anger with friendliness, sympathy and appreciation. In that case, we can turn an angry situation into a productive one. Former US president, Woodrow Wilson, put it this way:. Never begin a conversation by immediately addressing how your opinion differs from the other person. Instead, begin by emphasizing the points on which you agree.
Keep reminding all parties involved that while you might differ in terms of the preferred method, you are all striving for the same purpose. A skilled influencer of people can identify that common purpose. So, if you want to change the answer, you are going to have to change the whole response.
This can be an impossible task, so it is best to get things on track before you begin. When someone has a complaint, let them talk themselves out.
Ask the interviewer about their early years and get them talking about themselves. Let the other person do most of the talking. There should never be any need for you to claim credit for an idea. Let the other party claim the idea as their own and you will have a much easier time. They will be significantly more likely to cooperate.
Present the other person with the available information and ask them to tell you. There is always a reason that a person thinks and acts the way they. You will then have the key to their actions and even their personality.
Understanding why they have an opinion rather than just what that opinion is. You would have the same perspective as the other person in the conversation if you had their temperament, environment and experiences. While we might argue the role of environmental forces vs. Declare them reasonable given their circumstances. Morgan, one of the most powerful bankers of all time, once asserted that people usually have two reasons for anything they do: one that sounds good and the real one.
Speak and act in a way that assumes the best of them. The truth must be made vivid, interesting and dramatic. A demonstration is far more striking and memorable than words. Show people your ideas rather than telling them. The mill manager had tried everything with no success. When the night shift arrived, the new employees asked what the number meant.
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Over 30 million copies have been sold worldwide, making it one of the best-selling books of all time. Carnegie had been conducting business education courses in New York since The initial five thousand copies  of the book sold exceptionally well, going through 17 editions in its first year alone.
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